人类的本质是颜性恋吗?( 三 ) _生活百科

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因此，在结识新朋友时，怀抱一种开放、中立的态度，我们反而可能收获惊喜。
除此之外，还有一个更加简单粗暴却有用的办法，那就是——
根本不看脸。
在与人打交道的时候，如果要做重要的决定，那么，先去搜集尽量多的其它信息，最后再看脸。
毕竟，如果我们在看脸之前，内心就已经“有谱”了，自然可以将“受脸控制”的风险降到最低。
最后，再一次明确：
看脸是我们的一种本能，它难以克服。
但它所带来的偏见，可能主宰我们的判断，导致我们做出错误决定。
因此，虽然有些老套，我们仍然想要强调：
Don’t judge a book by its cover.

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无论多么美丽的外表，都无法粉饰人格的缺点。而一些面相所带来的优势，也会在时间的作用下，显示出它真实的样子。
祝我们都可以穿透外表的假象，去认识一些真正可爱的人们~

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